You are not by Yourself.

Raining outside, and I feel like sleeping soon! She had been causing a great din while we are asleep, so I'm being influenced under sleepless mode for a few nights. So inconsiderate. Luckily, I'm strong enough to hold through the whole working day; successfully.

I'm now trying my very best to lead a balance life with work and play. So far being able to train consistently, unlike the previous me in previous company. Discipline and choices are very important. I have chosen to leave and start anew, to focus on things that are very important to me.

Things may not be smooth in future, so we should also be prepared in order to survive. Look at the financial crisis affecting the whole world right now. I knew that would happen at anytime. Anyway, I count myself lucky to be able to get a new job so fast during these critical periods.

What's the secret? I think it will be great that you show your interest regarding to the career or job offered, which I have never realised it in the past. I also play along with my own character which is very important. Why? Nobody really likes hypocrite. Then I spoke frankly about my previous experiences and why did I leave within short period for most vacancies - honesty. Sometimes, faces and prides have to be loosen abit in order to get that desired position, like maybe the salary wise or the status. Speak with confidence, absorb the employers'/interviewers' personalities...


Sometimes, when I feel that there's no clique or chemistry between us, I will just show rejection in a polite way, like telling them you can't work on weekends if the position requires you to do so, and end the interview as soon as possible.


Just now I saw an articles about graffiti on benches. "I HATE GUYS, SERIOUSLY." So girls or ladies, are you thinking about that too? I think we are on the same boat. I have this kind of "hatred" recently. I think it's because of facing too many facts about guys have caused us to become that way. In order to focus instead of relationships, I think we had lead ourselves to become that way. Or, it's because you have just break off with your sweetheart.


I think we should look into the issues of psychology of those kids who did those graffiti instead of complaining about them doing all those stuff. Students are under more stress than in older days. I will be glad for them if they are able to learn to handle those stress. So who are willing to help them, who can help them?

To me, when I'm under great stress, I will tell myself, I have to help myself and I can handle them. Sometimes not successful, but I can try again with different ways. So to conclude by me, Slalom Angel, they have to help themselves by seeking help from other themselves. It will be great if they are able to take those advices with open hearts & faithfully and they must be willing to help themselves in order for others to help them. Most of the times, it's very difficult to the majority because they don't dare to face their problems.

I think I met too many people who are in various crisis today. So now, Slalom Angel, stretch all her great sympathy to them, you and me. Hope all of us, you and them are able to pull through all crisis that us, you and they are going though.

You are not by Yourself, even if you are alone.