Remember the previous entry I wrote about someone who I like and I should'nt. I was swept away then...
I never let him know about it so it would'nt spoil our friendship. While the human mind can be complicated. I kept it to myself for sometimes and finally tell a trustworthy friend about it. I feel so much better after letting it off.
The emotions and energies cool down eventually afterwards. I finally overcome it! Still I like him as a friend.
I think I have to go through this stage in order to have my heart open. After knowing him, I can feel that my world seems to have changed. My life is so full of hopes and lights which I have never experienced before for the past many years I have lived. I'm really thankful for being overwhelmed by this energy.
After writing about it, I was thinking of ways on how can I dissolve this overwhelming emotion to less overwhelming. It's not that I dislike or detest the feeling.
My only concern is: what if this energy or emotion controls my mind and my actions? This might totally goes wrong and in the end hurt other people, even worse, break up relationships. I hate to see that happen although it may also mean a test for that particular relationships...
But anyway, there's nothing wrong if you confess your feeling towards that person because in the end whatever actions you take whatever consequences you swallow.
Below are some methods I used to deal with that overwhelming emotions over the "wrong person"...
Can you remember when was the last time you were overwhelmed by such energies or emotions? Perhaps it is good to start a journal to write about them so those which are giving you negative impact might go away eventually. I hope so.
May peace, love and joy be with you.
I never let him know about it so it would'nt spoil our friendship. While the human mind can be complicated. I kept it to myself for sometimes and finally tell a trustworthy friend about it. I feel so much better after letting it off.
The emotions and energies cool down eventually afterwards. I finally overcome it! Still I like him as a friend.
I think I have to go through this stage in order to have my heart open. After knowing him, I can feel that my world seems to have changed. My life is so full of hopes and lights which I have never experienced before for the past many years I have lived. I'm really thankful for being overwhelmed by this energy.
After writing about it, I was thinking of ways on how can I dissolve this overwhelming emotion to less overwhelming. It's not that I dislike or detest the feeling.
My only concern is: what if this energy or emotion controls my mind and my actions? This might totally goes wrong and in the end hurt other people, even worse, break up relationships. I hate to see that happen although it may also mean a test for that particular relationships...
But anyway, there's nothing wrong if you confess your feeling towards that person because in the end whatever actions you take whatever consequences you swallow.
Below are some methods I used to deal with that overwhelming emotions over the "wrong person"...
- I started off by feeling the emotion fully with my heart because I do believe emotions will pass away after sometimes.
- At the same time I will still continue to see that person. Because if I stop seeing him another emotion will suffice which is "missing him badly" and this is going to add on to the workload of dissolving such emotions.
- I talk about it to a close friend who is trustworthy. This will change your perspective towards that person and you might find that the emotions will start to cease or shift. Afterall emotions are energies.
- Write a letter to inner Master, God, Universe... whatever you believe in. Ask them for guidances, tell them about all the worries, emotions and difficulties you are going through. Please be careful of what you ask.
- It takes effort and time in order to cool down such emotions so need to practise patience too.
Can you remember when was the last time you were overwhelmed by such energies or emotions? Perhaps it is good to start a journal to write about them so those which are giving you negative impact might go away eventually. I hope so.
May peace, love and joy be with you.
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