Feeling Burst of Zing

Feeling a burst of zing with a lil' aggressiveness lately. You know, the feeling that you want to get things done badly. Next, you realize you are pushing your own limits to accomplish a task.

I hope the emotion inside will cool down.

There's a question that is being hanging around my mind for quite some times. I hope readers can help me with it.

If I want to share a particular knowledge on skating, how do you think should I share amongst a group or with anyone who are trying to learn? Especially when they are those who won't initiate to approach when they have questions or problems - that is they are strangers.

Many times I thought, wait for them (strangers) to approach. If I approach them, they might thought I belittle on their skills especially guys. Gosh~ I came upon quite a few of them.

Or, just go and assist ladies only. Since I'm a lady, I will choose to assist ladies and share with them some of my knowledge to help them. But if they just want to flirt with the guys beside them, forget it then!

Treat them like your friends. Be friendly with them and have a short chit chat. Then gradually share with them knowledge & experience... I am more comfortable with this.

My ways may not suit you.

So what other ways to approach can you think of?

People treat me like friend, I treat them back like friends.
People who see me as enemy, I will bite back if they step on my tail.

I used to treat everyone like friends in the past. You may ask those who have known me for years since before I enter Team Micro till now. At that time, I thought if I am good to people they will be good to me. Thinking back, I was childish, plainly too innocent.

One day, a guy raised this topic out. He told me that I have changed alot. From being an extremely friendly lady, till now I'm extremely silent especially while I am doing my slalom. I will say, I'm learning to concentrate and think more. You can still approach me while I'm resting or not training. I still love to chit chat. :D

Being friendly is essential. But being over friendly will be another issue. Instead of making friends, you will or might scared people away in the end.

I learnt my lesson.