Yes, Relationship

Big THANK YOU to readers who are consistently following up on my blog even when I never write anything for the past few weeks. Now I got so much thing in mind that I intend to write.

Recently, I started to feel the bliss of having a crush. I should thank him for this. Who is that person? I think it's not convenient to be revealed now. Right now, I'm not in relationship, but I started to feel that he's the right one.

Let me share abit of my past love experience.

My last break up with my Ex was more than 3 years ago. I remember how devastated I was when I last hugged him. Although we were together for only a few months, he's the man that I loved alot at that time. He gave me many surprises, he did many things to make me happy, he shared with me a lot experiences and appreciated me in many areas. Thinking back, I could have done better on my part.

I took around 1 year to be completely healed from the break up. Looking back, I saw how immatured my thinking was. Going through had allowed me to learn how to handle emotions better.

Oh yeah, I do have some crush with some other guys after pulling through. XD But I think that's not important anymore. Now, I'm elated that he found a girlfriend!

Let's talk abit on Relationship. I hope it will help you if you are having some difficulties right now.

Communication is plays a part for relationships. I know many guys tend to keep alot to themselves and don't know how to discuss their needs with their partners. We most ladies have a hard time to keep guessing on what you all are thinking when you guys just shut up. Do you know it's very difficult to communicate like this?

One way to overcome: Sit down quietly and feel the peace of the quietness. Let him talk first if you sense he's in one of a bad mood and listen with your heart. Once we nag or argue, guys will just shut up again which signal that he is thinking you have no respect for him. Let's accept this fact, guys need our respects while we ladies need our guys to love us.

Maybe you will say not all men are like that, but I can tell you the majority of them need respect from their partners but they don't know themselves. So they don't know how to express it out!