I am still single. I even think that to become a nun is awesome.
After analyzing, it would be good to have one in order to advance in our experience of relationships. Which I wish to improve in my skills on handling relationships. Since most people with troubles are often into relationships.
Good way to explore and learn. If the relationship did not work, hard way to heal. But, it's another chance to realise everything and put things together into whole. So far what I can see, relationship is mainly about handling responsibilities, juggling with emotions and times, harmony and unity.
We can't expect that all relationships can last forever. Unless we are in India? Where rates of divorcing is the least.
Some people went from relationship to another, seems ever changing. They were not satisfied with the current ones and think the next one will be better. And the next one ain't that great, so change again, and so on and so forth.
Some people go by chemistry or "feeling". If they met the one they truly like, they will get into it seriously and try to make it works as possible. So most of these kinds might last for long or even forever.
Some people tend to date and date, even if they are still in a relationship. If they found somebody better, they will break of the current ones and move on to what they think "suitable".
Some people find relationships troublesome and stressful due to their workloads and studies. So they rather stay single.
Some people are too timid to voice out even if they'd found someone they like or love. This is totally common as fear occur natually in most people. Fear of rejections.
Some people look into physiques. Some look into materials. Some look into characters.
Maybe all these process are for us to explore and learn and realise. But what kind of learning processes do we want? What kind of relationships do we want to come back to us? I think it is all up to us, what are we going to sow now?
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Finally, I pluck up the courage to write this entry which I always have wanted to. I had always shunned away from this topic when people always ask me when will I get a boyfriend, especially my closer kins. While, I hope you are not thinking that I'm weird or eccentric just because I'm still single now.
There are a handful of people who are single even till golden age.
It's great to be single. It's also great to have a relationship with another half.
Both have different pros and cons.
I already have listed out the qualities that I looked into my guys few days ago, which maybe I shall list some out here. Mainly focusing on the character. That will be later on.
May all be well and happy. I give thanks to all who have been kind and generous to me and my family.
After analyzing, it would be good to have one in order to advance in our experience of relationships. Which I wish to improve in my skills on handling relationships. Since most people with troubles are often into relationships.
Good way to explore and learn. If the relationship did not work, hard way to heal. But, it's another chance to realise everything and put things together into whole. So far what I can see, relationship is mainly about handling responsibilities, juggling with emotions and times, harmony and unity.
We can't expect that all relationships can last forever. Unless we are in India? Where rates of divorcing is the least.
Some people went from relationship to another, seems ever changing. They were not satisfied with the current ones and think the next one will be better. And the next one ain't that great, so change again, and so on and so forth.
Some people go by chemistry or "feeling". If they met the one they truly like, they will get into it seriously and try to make it works as possible. So most of these kinds might last for long or even forever.
Some people tend to date and date, even if they are still in a relationship. If they found somebody better, they will break of the current ones and move on to what they think "suitable".
Some people find relationships troublesome and stressful due to their workloads and studies. So they rather stay single.
Some people are too timid to voice out even if they'd found someone they like or love. This is totally common as fear occur natually in most people. Fear of rejections.
Some people look into physiques. Some look into materials. Some look into characters.
Maybe all these process are for us to explore and learn and realise. But what kind of learning processes do we want? What kind of relationships do we want to come back to us? I think it is all up to us, what are we going to sow now?
------
Finally, I pluck up the courage to write this entry which I always have wanted to. I had always shunned away from this topic when people always ask me when will I get a boyfriend, especially my closer kins. While, I hope you are not thinking that I'm weird or eccentric just because I'm still single now.
There are a handful of people who are single even till golden age.
It's great to be single. It's also great to have a relationship with another half.
Both have different pros and cons.
I already have listed out the qualities that I looked into my guys few days ago, which maybe I shall list some out here. Mainly focusing on the character. That will be later on.
May all be well and happy. I give thanks to all who have been kind and generous to me and my family.
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