Most of us will agree that serving others is the main purpose that we come to this world. Here's some few words that were being stucked in my mind. Remember, these are just for reading. I encourage you to believe only words that you have experienced before.
The World is like a school.
Waiting for us to explore, learn, realise, improve and sharing what we'd learnt.
We hated, so we have to learn through hatred and revenge. If we did not learn how to forgive, we have to go through all over again by hating this and that.
We are envious, so we have to learn through envious. If we did not learn how to be happy for others achievement, we have to go through all over again by being envy of others.
Same for all other sins, negativities and bad habits which are bad for our well beings and society. Anger, greed, lust, selfishness, jealousy, envy, grievance, arrogance and carelessness. Smoking, drugs, crimes, alcoholism, abusing, lying and many more.
Somehow we should learn to understand; without all these we would not have improved.
All these learning experiences are through own family, relationships, government, workplace, money, community, gatherings, obstacles, accidents, disasters, philanthropic acts, reading, sports, dramas, career, news and many more.
But if we want to improve, we must be willing to change.
The will must be strong enough. Through the whole experiences, there will come more obstacles.
And that's how many of us learn and realise.
How to help others to realise and learn?
We should not interfere what they are going through. We should not enforce them on following certain ways to think, speak and act. We should not carry the resposibilities for them. Because if we do all these, in the end what happen we have to bear the consequences, and they will not learn and realise at all. They may even in the end blame us...
Most of us are good at pushing responsibilities, that's why.
What I think:
We should help them to think on their own about their problems and sufferings.
We can help by pointing out the facts on how all those problems might have arised as far as our knowledge knows.
We can suggest ways to overcome all the problems.
We can help them physically if they are of physical handicapped, at the same time we should "feed" them mental and emotions encouragements so they will be able to survive on their own even stronger.
By donating money is good, but only a temporary solution. Still it is better than keeping money only to ourselves when we have more than enough.
Physical help is also good especially for children, physical impaired people and senior citizens.
For those who are in need of emotional support:
we should do our best to help, suggest and advice (they must be willing to let you too). Whether they want to improve for better, the rest is up to them. I think sometimes is better to refer them to someone more professional than us when needed.
Recall: I used to be someone who always want to help people from bottom till the end. Ha, its a gruelsome job with endless blamings... that's how I learnt my lesson. Even now, sometimes tend to. Most of the time, will remind myself that all these are temporary, all those difficulties will be over, they will be better then. Help when necessary.
Anyway, wish you a happy learning experience.
The World is like a school.
Waiting for us to explore, learn, realise, improve and sharing what we'd learnt.
We hated, so we have to learn through hatred and revenge. If we did not learn how to forgive, we have to go through all over again by hating this and that.
We are envious, so we have to learn through envious. If we did not learn how to be happy for others achievement, we have to go through all over again by being envy of others.
Same for all other sins, negativities and bad habits which are bad for our well beings and society. Anger, greed, lust, selfishness, jealousy, envy, grievance, arrogance and carelessness. Smoking, drugs, crimes, alcoholism, abusing, lying and many more.
Somehow we should learn to understand; without all these we would not have improved.
All these learning experiences are through own family, relationships, government, workplace, money, community, gatherings, obstacles, accidents, disasters, philanthropic acts, reading, sports, dramas, career, news and many more.
But if we want to improve, we must be willing to change.
The will must be strong enough. Through the whole experiences, there will come more obstacles.
And that's how many of us learn and realise.
How to help others to realise and learn?
We should not interfere what they are going through. We should not enforce them on following certain ways to think, speak and act. We should not carry the resposibilities for them. Because if we do all these, in the end what happen we have to bear the consequences, and they will not learn and realise at all. They may even in the end blame us...
Most of us are good at pushing responsibilities, that's why.
What I think:
We should help them to think on their own about their problems and sufferings.
We can help by pointing out the facts on how all those problems might have arised as far as our knowledge knows.
We can suggest ways to overcome all the problems.
We can help them physically if they are of physical handicapped, at the same time we should "feed" them mental and emotions encouragements so they will be able to survive on their own even stronger.
By donating money is good, but only a temporary solution. Still it is better than keeping money only to ourselves when we have more than enough.
Physical help is also good especially for children, physical impaired people and senior citizens.
For those who are in need of emotional support:
we should do our best to help, suggest and advice (they must be willing to let you too). Whether they want to improve for better, the rest is up to them. I think sometimes is better to refer them to someone more professional than us when needed.
Recall: I used to be someone who always want to help people from bottom till the end. Ha, its a gruelsome job with endless blamings... that's how I learnt my lesson. Even now, sometimes tend to. Most of the time, will remind myself that all these are temporary, all those difficulties will be over, they will be better then. Help when necessary.
Anyway, wish you a happy learning experience.
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